Golden quotes by my best friend

 Golden quotes by my best friend




  • If you get triggered easily, anyone can manipulate you easily. For example - Danish from MSFT. 
  • People ARE NOT going to CHANGE. You can always be aware of their words, expressions, drama and tone. Just smile :) like Vadivelu and reverse trigger it.
  • What bothered you a few years ago (made you go into loops umpteen number of times) will be immaterial.
  • A GAME needs two players. Player A throws the ball. The game STARTS only when player B responds to the ball. Be the 'WALL'.
  • Don't bother about what others think of you. That's when you will feel the true freedom. Once you set yourself free, you will be unstoppable.

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